Generally speaking, when a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to help a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving he may sound to him. |
A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood. |
To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own. |
Just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving. |
All men and women have an equal need for love. When these needs are not fulfilled it is easy to have our feelings hurt, for which we blame our partner. |
The process of learning requires not only hearing and applying but also forgetting and then remembering again. |
When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom. |
Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed. Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished. |